Personality
Transformation
It is said: To face storms . . . beat obstacles, live with difficult people, climb the steepest of mountains and yet turn out to be as inexperienced person as one was before, then one had rather not done whatever one did. If we do not learn from our experiencess, then it is important to to look in a different direction. Living a life without learning and change is living a life without meaning or cause.
Change is inevitable and thus it should be welcomed with grace. Change is possible when there is a deep transformation of personality, which includes thoughts, attitudes and feelings. An entire change such as this brings about a strong future, full of strength and love.
Why Personality Transformation?
The joy and pain we experience is not entirely based upon responses from people and situations but how we allow these to rule out lives. When we get coloured by limited perceptions we are no more creators of our lives but mere products of situations. Our perceptions then alter our personality affecting its depth, power and compassions. Though we try to find different ways to understand, accept and change our responses to the world, the adjustments we make are mostly superficial and the underlying current of deep rooted habits are persistant. It is then understood that without the necessary power in our attitudes and feedings we cannot transform our personality.
This programme allows a subtle querry into the depths of personality and incorporates a simple way of changing and empowering the self through dveloping greater insight and meaning. The course structure covers the following concepts in depth.
Intricacies of personality
Our personality is the eventual outcome of what we think, decide and do. A clear understanding of our personality is required in order to make a difference.
Guiding Voice for Change
From time to time, we are touched by an inner voice. It is essential to have the intuitive ability to recognize that voice and bring greater meaning to life.
Session I - Introduction to the Program and Aims:
Introduction to the program:
For
any transformation to be successful, it has to be deep and dramatic. Such
deep process can bring about difference or newness in things. For example,
to be able to access water from earth it is important to go deeper because
the more shallow it is the more rocks and hurdles are experienced or seen.
Transformations
are of 3 levels: Given examples of two people on a conflict or a problem,
the situation or work or just with self. Discuss the three levels of transformation
-- Behavioral, Emotional & Attitudinal.
Session II - Renaissance - towards newness
Its
important to move from old to new. Change is inevitable and thus it should
be welcomed with grace. Change is always possible when there is a necessary
transformation of personality. That includes the process of thoughts, attitudes &
relationships thoughts, feelings and the entire life. An entire change
such as this brings about a strong future, full of control and love.
- Information fixation
- Lack
of familiarity
- Belief
in what we see
- Immediate
result orientation
- Keeping
the focus of the environment
- Lacking
intrinsic motivation
- Over emphasis on weaknesses and undermining strengths
Session III - Guiding voice for change
There
are three voices or inspiration for transformation. One time or the other
we are touched by one of them and most times realize the importance of
transformation. They are Self induced voice, Voice of the world and Inner
voice.
Session IV - Intricacies of Personality
• Intricacies of
Personality
• Layers of Personality
Session V - Themes of Transformation
• Transformation in self.
Session VI - Connect - Transformation in Relationships
Session VII
• Transformation
in situation and work
• Point Technique
• Learning
Learning depends upon
four factors:
• Retrospection
• Rectification
• Realization
• Reference.
Session VIII: - Acts of Creation
Session IX - Themes & Powers:
Personality
The
person will be preoccupied about people. High sensitivity and feelings
of insecurity. Giving importance to trivial responses from others. stubborn
in interaction and high expectations from others.
Thoughts
Mostly questioning about others behavior and their weaknesses and ones
own behavior towards others
Attitude
Non acceptance of others in any other way then their own.
Words
Spoken sometimes harshly and with disrespect towards others In the
area of work is that of having clarity and focused at work.
When
we have understood the different areas of transformation we need to have
clarity about the areas in which we need to transform in the present position.
There are four areas as already discussed:
1. Self
2. Situation
3. Relationship
4. Work
Session X - Transformation Programming
Programming
transformation is to monitor the positive growth in all 4 areas of life.
In work we need happiness, in situations we need power, in relations we need
love and in self we need peace. |